A quote from David Deida
"Huge sexual energy necessitates huge love. The more you magnify desire through sex the more you must match the love to the size of your
WE,.that's YOU and Me.... are the result of billions of years of biological evolution. And as Einstein said there is no energy lost to the universe, it is all being
continuously transformed. What we are IS energy, energy that is continuously being transformed. But the new thing that is happening here, the new paradigm that has recently come into the equation is the
element of consciousness, and that through the purposeful focusing of consciousness we can exert some influence over that transformation.
What in the world does that have to do with Tantric Healing Touch??? JUST
EVERYTHING. Your body and mine too, is energy. It is a collaboration of resonating vibrational frequencies. Those frequencies are
what create our individual and collective realities.
One of the most important aspects of the Tantric path is the slowing down of
mind and body so that the individual can tune into his or her own
frequency, to hear it, feel it, become intimate with it, and find his/her way into harmony wholeness) with him or her self and with the rest of creation. It is similar to the effect of meditation
in that it inspires a sense of well-being, or attunement with oneself and with all of life.
On the way to this sense of well-being "stuff" comes up. "Stuff" being the
vernacular for imprints or messages that caused contraction or pain that are held in the bodymind but go unnoticed because of the constant noise of everyday life and the habituation to one's everyday
sense of self. Through the millennium of recorded history we have all taken on imprints and vibrations that were violent and discordant, and that caused our energetic systems to close or contract rather
than open as the unbounded love of life. These may have come to us as resonating frequencies in our DNA, as the history of our parents and ancestral line, and through our culture and the collective
consciousness that we are always a part of. And we became so merged with them that most of the time we just think this is WHO I am and HOW it is.
In my sessions I work from a place of "open
attention". What that means is I have no pre-conceived agenda other than to guide you into a place of deeper relaxation than is usually felt, so that you can experience more of you beyond your
personality, and your current identity, i.e., husband, wife, father, mother, lawyer, cab driver, Indian Chief, healthy, not so healthy, whatever... Because all of the information that you need for your
transformation is contained in the cells and atoms of your body, and can emerge for clearing and release offering you a revitalized sense of aliveness and well being.
Tantra is actually called Tantra
Yoga and in yogic terms the time frame we are in right now is called the Kali Yuga. It is said that in the time of the Kali Yuga all of the world's negativity will come up for clearing so that we
may live in a new era of love and peace. Guess where this clearing happens??? In and through our very own bodies!!!
Relationships, sexual and emotional intimacy are in a very challenging
place right now, (in case you hadn't noticed) because most people have incorrect impressions of what exactly is happening. And few have learned how to deeply nourish themselves, so how can they
nourish another??? Since the sexual revolution of the 60's images of sex abound, and sexual stimulation can be activated almost anywhere, anytime. But has human happiness and fulfillment proportionately
increased??? No, the opposite is true. Millions are on anti anxiety and anti depressant medication, impotence and premature ejaculation are widespread problems as are the escalating cases of
reproductive malfunction and cancer. Women are plagued by eating and image disorders and the alienation from self, other grows as a modern day nightmare. Is there any solution you may wonder???
Yes, of course there is, we are never given a problem without the possibility for a solution. And the solution is a deepening and expansion of love.............a remembering, a reawakening of what
drives us, what motivates us to want to be sensual, sexual in the first place. At the core of our being we long to know and live in the exhilaration of love. And I am not speaking of the love of romantic
fantasy, but of a deeper more profound love, the love of existence itself. It is that love that is the foundation of who and what you are and when you touch, and begin to live in that love,
everything changes. It can change your life your health, your relationships, your sensuality and sexuality.
And all you have to do is to learn to relax, more and more deeply ... to relax and free fall
into being all of you, more of you..... of who you REALLY are.